Keeping Kids Safe On Myspace

There are a lot of teens who are using MySpace.Internet service provider instead of responding to
Individuals over the age of 14 are eligible to usethe threats. Responding to threats or harassing
MySpace so as a result there are manymessages can exacerbate a potentially harmful
teenagers who are members of the onlinesituation.
MySpace community. These young members* Internet usage should be restricted to high
may appreciate the opportunity to express theirtraffic locations in the house. For example kids
creativity, express their feelings, meet newshould only be allowed to use the Internet in
friends or stay in touch with their old friends butcomputers which are in locations such as the
they should also be aware that there is thefamily room or kitchen as opposed to allowing
potential for danger on any Internet community.kids Internet access in their bedrooms.
Making kids aware of this is helpful but there isMonitoring Online Interactions
also a certain degree of parental involvementParents whose children have a MySpace account
which is necessary to keep kids safe when theyshould monitor their child's online interactions on a
are online.regular basis to ensure these interactions are not
Enforcing Household Internet Rulespotentially harmful. Parents should be particularly
Kids who use MySpace, or the Internet in general,concerned when children are interacting with older
should be restricted to a few household rulesindividuals who engage in activities which are not
regarding Internet usage. Putting these rules inappropriate for the child's age or when the
place can be very helpful in reducing the potentialchildren are interacting with those who might be a
for danger. Some of the general Internet rulesnegative influence on the child.
parents might consider are:Parents should also be aware that those their child
* Do not post full name and address online oris interacting with may not be honest about their
even school location. This will help to preventidentity. For example a parent may think it is
stalking which could become a problem if onlineharmless for their 15 year old daughter to engage
predators know where your child lives or go toin flirtatious banter with a 16 year old boy but
school.there is the possibility that her online friend is
* Restrict Internet usage to specific hours duringreally a much older individual. Parents should
the day. This can prevent overuse of themonitor these activities for suspicious behavior or
Internet.suggestions of meeting in person.
* Do not agree to meet online friends in personReviewing the Terms of Service
without consent. Ideally the parents should alsoFinally, parents who want to keep their kid safe
accompany their children on these meetings andon MySpace should familiarize themselves with the
should ensure the meetings take place in a well lit,online community as well as the terms of service
public location such as a coffee shop as opposedand privacy policy. This will give the parents a
to a secluded spot such as an individual's home.better idea of the type of activities their children
* Do not respond to threats or harassment. Kidsare engaging in and being exposed to as well as
should be taught to ignore this type of behaviorthe safety precautions which are in place to help
and report these instances to parents or theyou protect your child.